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It’s Finally 2024!

It’s Finally 2024!

Happy New Year, it’s finally 2024! This is an ideal time for couples to come together and craft their aspirations for the upcoming year as a united team. Setting goals as a couple isn’t just about personal ambitions; it’s a collaborative effort to nurture...
Fighting Fairly

Fighting Fairly

As a couples therapist, I often hear variations of the following statements from the clients who come to my office: “We always fight about the same things.” “We have a problem with communication.” “I don’t feel like he/she/they understand where I’m coming from.”...
Stonewalling

Stonewalling

In my work with couples, I often lean on the work of Dr. John Gottman, a clinician and researcher with 40 years of experience studying what makes marriages successful…and what makes them fall apart. Gottman and colleagues cite the practices of curiosity, mutual...
Defensiveness

Defensiveness

In my work with couples, I often lean on the work of Dr. John Gottman, a clinician and researcher with 40 years of experience studying what makes marriages successful…and what makes them fall apart. Gottman and colleagues cite the practices of curiosity, mutual...
Contempt

Contempt

In my work with couples, I often lean on the work of Dr. John Gottman, a clinician and researcher with 40 years of experience studying what makes marriages successful…and what makes them fall apart. Gottman and colleagues cite the practices of curiosity, mutual...
Criticism

Criticism

In my work with couples, I often lean on the work of Dr. John Gottman, a clinician and researcher with 40 years of experience studying what makes marriages successful…and what makes them fall apart. Gottman and colleagues cite the practices of curiosity, mutual...