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But Mom, I Look Like You

But Mom, I Look Like You

I remember the comments that seemed so ordinary at the time. Complaints in front of the mirror. Asking “does this dress make me look fat?” Pictures being avoided. Laughing off compliments. Criticizing wrinkles, cellulite, stomachs, thighs, or the way age had...
A Therapist’s Experience with Self-Compassion

A Therapist’s Experience with Self-Compassion

When I first began my education as a clinical social worker, I was assigned The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook by Kristin Neff. At the time, I was unfamiliar with the concept of self-compassion and deeply self-critical. That workbook laid the foundation for a kind...
Peeling back the layers of self-compassion

Peeling back the layers of self-compassion

We’ve all heard of self-compassion, but most of us have an incomplete concept of this practice, and it’s time we talk about it. The word “compassion” is derived from latin, and it means “to suffer with”. Compassion refers to the way we respond to suffering, whether...